This week I got a bisness card from a friend of mine that said his profession was that of a Distinguished Gentleman, on this card there was a picture of a bare-knuckle fist fighter and a man with a monocle and top hat. It's safe to say that I thought that this card was amazing and I wondered, what constitutes a gentleman?
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An old time bare knuckled fist fighter. |
Every single person has a different interpretation of what makes a gentleman, but general, a Gentleman is someone who is the definition of what is wanted from society. His is the most virtuous of person that is possible. He is the nicest and promptest of people.
A gentleman doesn't do the things people think are annoying, gross or mean. He is courteous, respectful and chivalrous. A gentleman is a perfect person, often used as an example of what people should be.
To me a gentleman does many things, He avoids violence unless it is absolutely necessary.
A gentleman never boasts or tries to make himself look different than any other person and follows his self set rules and restrictions to the grave.
A gentleman always does what he agrees to unless more pressing issues arise, upon which he promptly informs the person he agreed with.
Whenever a gentleman is insulted or challenged in public, he never retaliates or shows negative emotion, he just politely accepts the challenge or insult.
Nonetheless gentlemen are fewer now then ever before. Usually gentlemen are associated with scholars and various other learned people. Gentlemen were originally people from powerful families that had no need to work. Their legacy worked for them. In speech now, gentlemen either refers to men in a polite sense or to a man of virtuous character.
It is said that a gentleman is liked and respected by all, so I would like to ask that everyone act like a gentleman so that things that are not virtuous will no longer exist.
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The requirements and qualifications of any true gentleman. |
The gentlemen of old have changed and now anyone can be a gentlemen if they try at it. Everyone's view of what it takes to be a gentleman is different and it's hard to try and accurately describe what it takes to be a gentleman. The basics are just that any gentleman must posses a virtuous demeanor and act with utmost courtesy.